Cranbrook, Kent

How to describe the boxed area of Southeast England, with London and the Thames on the north and the sea on the other sides? It’s often referred to as the garden of England, but here’s a more emblematic analogy: The Shire. Yes, from J.R.R. Tolkein’s tale of hobbits, dwarves, elves and others. The hobbits live in The Shire, a bucolic farmland of hard-working, fun-loving little people with hearts of gold, endless appetites, and steel spines. The Shire represents a pre-industrial idyll of England, standing athwart the grime and poverty of the coming industrial revolution.

St. Dunstan’s Anglican Church

Cranbrook is a small town that fancies itself the capital of the Weald, an Old English term referring to this vast woodland area. It’s a teeny capital: just a few streets, only one real intersection, not even a stop sign, less a traffic light. We’re staying on High Street (American translation: Main Street), about a block from the all the action, that is, the intersection. There is a fine collection of pubs and restaurants, all terribly quaint, a grocery co-op immediately behind the house, and walking trails and nature reserves galore.

That’s all, folks!

First Alicante, then Madrid, then London, now (wait for it) . . . Cranbrook? One of these things is not like the others, as they used to sing on Sesame Street. What are we doing here? Last year, I promised my dear wife we would get a dog sometime during the year. As the year wore on, and we looked at our travel plans (including the near-future ones), Judy came to the conclusion we simply couldn’t get a dog right now. We’re traveling a lot, because we still can, but soon a day will come when we can’t (travel, that is). So she forwent her immediate dog fancy.

In exchange, she countered with a novel idea: perhaps we could rent a dog. Not literally, but figuratively. We joined an international house-sitting website which matches people wiling to take care of other’s pets in exchange for staying in the owner’s home, free. No money exchanges hands, but the owner gets a vacation free of worry about their pet and the pet-sitter gets to “live in” rather than just visit a new place. I readily agreed, as long as we could fit it into our existing plans.

Judy started applying for “sits” in the UK in June, as we had plans for Alicante already set, and we just held off on scheduling our return flight, which we were using points to fly on Virgin Airways, Heathrow to Los Angeles. But we were planning months early, and many people don’t even post their requests until a few weeks out. We had no nibbles, and were going to go ahead and close out the idea, when we saw a sit in lovely rural Cranbrook, Kent. Not only that, it was two weeks long (longer than most, which are a week-to-ten days) and gave us just enough time to visit Madrid and London on the way from Alicante. Best of all, the dogs we would be sitting were Vizslas, the breed we owned for almost thirty years! This was a dog-fix extraordinare for Judy! We applied, were interviewed online, and finally got the sit, partly because we were so darn enthusiastic about just sitting the dogs. The owners were telling us all about the charm of the area (selling us), and we were “that’s nice, we just want to be with your dogs!”

Our “rental” Vizslas, demonstrating one of their two modes: indoor inactive
and here’s “active on the trail”

So here we are in the Shire with Toffee and Treacle! Treacle is thirteen years old, so she’s limited to shorter walks around the local nature reserve, or up the High Street to the Church and back. Toffee is only six, and she’s the type of dog, if you tied a treat on a string hanging from a stick in front of her snout, she could walk the Camino de Santiago, in a week. Probably need a few extra treats.

So many lovely trails to hike

Things are very quiet here during the week. We have adapted easily to the laid back pace, which revolves around the dogs’ eating and exercise schedule. On the weekend, things get pretty busy, as tourists and big city types abscond from London in search of the pretty English countryside, which is what the Weald offers in abundance. Better still, it’s bloom season, and everybody seems to have roses or other perennials adorning the outside of their cottages.

THE intersection

The heat wave which chased us from London moved on, and we moved out to cooler climes, so outside of a hot sun in the middle of the afternoon, the climate is very comfortable. We have the windows full open all night, which sometimes necessitates a duvet on the bed. Remember, I told you the English haven’t discovered air conditioning yet! Perhaps with global warming this newfangled technology will become a local fashion.

Inside the pub at The George for our 44th anniversary brunch

Weekends require a longer walk with Toffee, who seems to know her way around the local forests quite well. I was navigating using AllTrails, an app I have found most useful for such things while traveling, while Toffee kept stopping at various crossings, indicating which way I should go. She may be a local, but I had GPS. Between us, we navigated several miles of dense woodland and returned safely.

Things we noticed during this Spain & England visit? England is way more expensive. I expected it in London, but even out here in the countryside, groceries, pints at the pub, and restaurant meals are $$$$. I spent £33 on a glorified chicken sandwich and fries the other day at a local pub, and yes, that’s almost US $45! The Tube in London is still cheap, there are good free museums, and you can shop around and find less expensive meals, but England in general is much more expensive than Spain, or even the US.

You have to love the English trail system. Every forest, every reserve, and even the farmlands have public rights-of-way that allow you to stay off the roads and wander from town to town. Which is a good thing, because the local roads are narrow, people drive fast, and they always seem to be on the wrong side (sorry, couldn’t resist. It’s my response to being told I ‘had an American accent.’). The trails themselves vary between trodden dirt paths in the forest to paved and maintained paths in some meadows. Whatever their condition, they are a true delight and a national resource one must enjoy when out and about.

The Spanish appeared younger, happier and healthier than the English we met. It’s a gross generalization (is there any other kind?) but an accurate one for our experiences this trip. Perhaps it’s just an artifact of where we visited and stayed, but maybe not. Almost nobody engaged us in political discussions, with the exception of our dog-sit host: the husband and I had a long talk about the Trump phenomenon and Sir Keir’s problems at #10 Downing Street, and it was all quite pleasant. I have always found Europeans to be quite happy to talk about their own politics when they meet an American who shows interest. Certainly everybody we met was welcoming.

As we walked the dogs in the nature reserve trail the other day, Judy said she was “ready to go home” and I agree. The cruise, the time in Spain, Madrid & London, and the Shire have each been very enjoyable, but we’re ready to get back to Mexico, where the locals assure me the rainy season just started with a big thunderstorm!

London calling

You may have heard rumors of travel nightmares in Europe because of the roll out of the EU’s new Entry/Exit System (EES). It’s a biometric system designed to replace stamping passports, so it is a form of progress, if done right. Sadly, this is the EU, so it’s not been done right. Right would be capturing your fingerprints and face scan either online or once at an entry point, then speeding you through automated gates every time hence. Instead, the EU is sending all non-Schengen passengers through the same entry point, which is causing long delays, so long, that passengers are missing their flights, whether they had previously enrolled or not.

The title? Just an excuse to link to The Clash

Forewarned, we arrived at Madrid Barajas airport four hours early for our early evening flight to London Heathrow. First problem, British Airways wouldn’t allow us to check our bag until less than three hours before the flight. Unable to check our bag, we couldn’t head through security, let alone customs and immigration. At the designated time we dropped off the bag and quickly passed through the security lines into the secure area. Thinking we were in the clear, since we were at departure gates, we started looking for a lounge to while away the time, when it occurred to me (perhaps those years working the US DHS), “we went through security, but not customs and immigration!” How?

Barajas international airport segregates non-Schengen passengers at a remote terminal, and by remote, I mean a five-minute, high-speed rail-line remote! We arrived at that terminal to find the promised chaos: a massive number of automated checkpoints, only a few people explaining in Spanish, and a mad mix of foreigners trying and being turned away. Luckily, we had enrolled in the EES when we disembarked our transatlantic cruise, so we made our way to an empty kiosk, read in our passports and got our faces confirmed, and moved on. But very many other people were left cycling through different kiosks, unsure of what was happening.

We found an excellent lounge to kill the extra time, and just as things started looking up, British Airways snatched defeat from the jaws of victory. First a forty-five minute take-off delay, then another forty-five minutes after we boarded, because they couldn’t properly load a pallet of non-luggage cargo. Now our early evening arrival was a mid-evening arrival. Okay, at least the sub-two hour flight to Heathrow was uneventful, until the pilot aborted the landing at one hundred meters altitude. For those unfamiliar, that’s about the height of the upper deck at your local stadium. Seems he came in too fast, and this being Heathrow, we were now at the back of the landing queue, costing another thirty minutes. And even then, with a different runway, we made a very fast and hard landing. Safe still beats late, though. We taxied to an empty area and our entire Boeing 777 disembarked to . . . busses. A large, international arrival at a major European hub, on the national airline, and . . . busses? Hmmmm.

The UK created its own new pre-arrival entry system last year, and we enrolled, so we whisked through immigration, but once again many Americans (and others) were caught up in “do you have an ETA?” discussions. Of course our bag was nearly last off the plane, so we dashed to the Heathrow Express and arrived at Paddington station fifteen minutes later, around eleven pm.

We have been visiting London and staying near Paddington for decades. There are several small neighborhoods there where rows of former townhouses have been repurposed into boutique hotels, at about half the going rate for American-style hotels in London. You’ll get a quirky room (our bathroom is up several stairs), no air conditioning, and a full English breakie. And walkable to Paddington, which connects everywhere in London.

Every door a hotel

You may have rushed past that “no air conditioning” comment. It’s not common in London, and since our time in sunny Spain was a little cooler than anticipated, we were more worried about layers when we emerged from the Tube. Alas, a heat dome settled over the area just in time for our arrival, including the warmest May temperature on record (35 Celsius, 95 Fahrenheit). And London has long records. We had to recall all our travel survival tips, remembering the joy of frequent cold showers, pub stops, and visiting a (outrageously expensive at twenty English pounds-per-person) little cinema for air conditioning (Hint: The Sheep Detectives is great fun!). We made it through the first day of the heat wave that way, but the inability to get any airflow or cooling at night sent me back to find another hotel in the same area, this time with a/c.

And we were lucky, since we have already seen and done all the tourist must-sees/dos. We narrowed our agenda down to evening hours, or added in all those breaks and stops. For example, we took in an evening performance of a new Sherlock! production at the Regents Park open air theater, which would have been dreadful for the matinee.

We planned a picnic in Kensington Gardens, but instead of building it ourselves, we simply strolled into a Marks & Spencer and picked up all the necessaries in a few well-organized minutes. Pro-tip: we always travel with small, packable rain coats, which make an expedient picnic blanket. Add in a great public park with much shade, and Bob’s your uncle!

Thank you, Your Highness.

Sunday we trekked to Marylebone to visit Saint James Catholic church at Spanish Place, a Gothic structure with a lot of history. The church survived because it was bequeathed to the Spanish government and gained immunity from the back-and-forth persecutions of the English Reformation. We just enjoyed hearing a Mass in English for a change.

A short walk away we reserved our first Sunday Roast at a pub called The Prince Regent. It’s an English tradition to serve roast beef with Yorkshire pudding, roast vegetables, and a sticky toffee pudding for Sunday brunch. Somehow we had heretofore missed out on it, and it was delicious.

We arranged mid-morning tickets to the special exhibition of works by Francisco de Zurbarán at the National Gallery. Having seen some of the Spanish master’s work at the Prado, it was great to find a more complete collection spanning all his work in London.

This final painting is quite unique: it features a pensive Virgin Mary looking on at Jesus as a young man who has cut his finger on a crown of thorns he wove. Jesus seems more curious than pained, but Mary clearly suffers a premonition.

Right next door, we had lunch in the crypt cafe under St. Martins-in-the-fields, a favorite of ours whenever we’re in London. There’s something a touch unsettling at the floor tombstones, but a memento mori is always a good thing.

Most of this trip was replaying favorites from past visits: the picnic, a walk along the “little Venice” canals behind Paddington station, riding the Tube, going to the open air theater, pub visits, the National Gallery, St. Martin’s. We got a roast (first time), fish and chips, and very good Lebanese food. We suffered for my (not air-conditioned) sins. We’ve not grown tired of London yet, as Samuel Johnson observed, for there’s still more to see and do.

Admiral Nelson still stands his watch toward the Elizabeth tower, which contains Big Ben (but you already knew Big Ben was the bell, not the clock)

Madrid, Villa y Corte

We’ve transited through Madrid before, but never stayed, so this trip we gave ourselves a little stopover of four days/three nights to hit some of the high points. Madrid, the capital of Spain, is literally the central city. The evidence for settlement here goes back to the Celts, who built a fort near a ford here in the Fifth Century BCE. At least one of the prominent theories for the derivation of Madrid is from the Celtic word for ford. Madrileños (people from Madrid) prefer the nickname gatos (yes, cats) because they see themselves as stylish and nocturnal: I can confirm both allegations.

Just another cafe vista in Madrid!

Madrid would be just another small fort-city on the Spanish meseta (plain) if not for Phillip II, who chose it as the royal seat in 1561, precisely because it was in the geographic middle of the peninsula. Oh, that and it was surrounded by forests, which satisfied his passion for hunting. And to please his wife, Elisabeth, who hated the cramped, cold, fortified city of Toledo and longed for anywhere else (reverse Spanish Green Acres?). Phillip’s choice turned the sleepy village into the seat of the great Spanish Hapsburg empire, and eventually the world-class city it is today, although its long-standing nickname remains Villa y Corte, or “town & court.”

That’s him, and the horse he rode in on

The Plaza Mayor is the central square of Madrid, lined with cafes but free of any central shade, lest you get close to the statue of Felipe III. We stayed just around the corner, and the Plaza was a pleasant place to stroll through or take in an aperol spritz and watch everybody else strolling by. The cafes are a mix of the good, bad, and ugly (Pizza Hut?), so do your homework or else walk a few blocks away where numerous excellent restaurants await.

We ate at two centenarios, restaurants that have been operating as such for at least one-hundred years. The first was Sobrino de Botín, which proudly displays its Guinness world record as the oldest continuously-operating restaurant (since 1725). And the legend holds that their oven has been continuously burning for 300 years. We staked out the opening for lunch and scored one of the few walk-in, outdoor tables. Botín’s pride and joy is cochinillo asado, or roast suckling pig. We enjoyed the prix fixe menu, but were not wowed by the piggys. But that chef was certainly moving them from shelf to plate!

The other was Restaurante Los Galayos, which impressed us in every way. Here we tried another must-eat local dish named Cocido Madrileño. This is a hearty stew served in multiple stages. All the ingredients are cooked together, but then the meat and vegetables are removed from the broth. Thin, angel-hair like pasta is added back in, and the broth is served as a first course. Then the pot with the sausages, chicken, pork, carrots, potatoes, and artichokes arrives, which you place back into your remaining broth. Add in a pitcher of tinto verano (a wine and soda mix popular among locals; they leave the sangria for the tourists) and you have a quintessential Madrid lunch feast.

Stuffed doesn’t begin to describe the aftermath

We also had a delightful tapas lunch in the Mercado de San Miguel, a fashionable “gastro” experience that–while admittedly touristy–was nonetheless tasty. Get here early (before two in the afternoon) and take turns holding down a place at the cafe benches while munching on everything from seafood tapas to jamón ibérico to sushi to meatballs to pastries.

Of course you must visit the Prado, Madrid’s world-beating art museum. Sorry if I have no pictures to share, as they have a “no photos” policy. But here are some tips: get a reserved, timed ticket. You don’t want to join the throngs standing in the hot sun to get in. But when you go online to get that ticket, skip the “sponsored results” section on Google and make sure you are on the actual Prado website (here it is) and not a fake site like this one. Or you’ll end up paying twice, or arguing endlessly with your credit card company.* You can buy the audio guide, but don’t use its built-in tour, which is haphazard at best. Plan what you want to see beforehand and make your own way, stopping to marvel at the other surprises along the way. Finally, pay no attention to any of the helpful information signs painted on the walls. Apparently they reorganized some time ago but left the old signs up, which will send you on an endless doom-loop in search of a bathroom (by the way, aseo, not baño, in España).

Entrance to the royal palace

The Palacio Real is the Spanish royal family’s official residence, and the largest royal palace in Europe. It is a magnificent baroque structure, full of the art and the wealthy trappings one would ascribe to Spain at the peak of its worldly power in the 17th century. A self-guided tour is sufficient, even if the audio guide is somewhat erratic in its presentation. Be sure not to miss the royal armory, recently reopened, for an extensive review of medieval weapons and armor.

Next to the royal palace is, yes, another (bloody) church (abc). What’s different about this Cathedral is it’s fairly new, only being completed in 1993. Formally named the Cathedral of Saint Mary the Royal of the Almudena, it was started in 1883 but left uncompleted by the Spanish Civil War, and only finished much later, after the fall of the Franco dictatorship. It’s a neo-Gothic structure, with baroque additions, but much of the art work is modern. Take a look:

From modern to ancient: a short walk from the royal palace through the parks surrounding it rewards you with an incongruous site: the ancient Egyptian Temple of Debod. Seems when Egypt was building the Aswan High dam, several ancient temple complexes were scheduled to be flooded. Spain donated to save the temples, and Egypt rewarded them by deconstructing one and moving it to Spain. It now sits in a park with an overlook of the parklands of the royal estate, Madrid’s suburbs, and sunset every evening.

We know we only scratched the surface of Madrid’s offerings. There’s shopping on the Gran Via, matches for Real Madrid, and so much more art, architecture, and culture. We’ll certainly look to visit again, as it is a convenient hub for travel in Spain. One final note: even in May, the daytime sun was quickly pushing the “unbearable” level, so hats, sunscreen, and extra hydration are a must. Or just plain your visit cafe-to-cafe, alternating between cañas (small beers) and Aquarius electrolyte water!

* Yes, I know better. It turns out, I finally figured out how I was duped. I had long ago gone to the fake website, realized it and backed out. When the day came to buy my tickets, Google helpfully highlighted the result because I had been there before, so I mistook it for the real website. Not helpful, but a learning experience.

Alicante: Roman & Medieval

Touring around the town, as one can do during an extended stay, you get the opportunity to dig a little deeper into the local history and culture. Here are some gems we uncovered while doing so in Alicante.

Settlement in the region goes back to the fifth century BCE (before the Christian Era). The climate, sea access, and fertile soils made it a natural place to settle. As was often the case around the Mediterranean Sea, things really took off once the Romans arrived. The original Roman town, called Lucentum lies stop a hill just a couple kilometers north of the current town. Oddly, it lies smack in the middle of a sprawling suburban village, setting up the juxtaposition of ancient ruins surrounded by modern villas and giant housing complexes.

The site today; the same dichotomy of modern and ancient extends 360 degrees

The government has done a fine job preserving the outlines of the entire original Roman settlement, and even explaining how the remaining outlines of the buildings indicate they were used. All the critical pillars of Roman society are present: the gates, the fortifications, the street layout, the forum, the baths, the sewer and fresh water collection systems.

I’m not sure if I ever saw this before: they color coded the gravel in each building to indicate what they think that structure was used for

The site had a small (three Euro) entrance fee, was well signed in Spanish, Valencian (a relative of Catalan), and English. It was an easy walk from the local tram station, and of course there were bars nearby to rehydrate with a caña or aperol!

On another sunny day, we decided to trek to the top of Mount Benacantil, the rocky top upon which Santa Barbara castle sits. Last year, we took an interior elevator to the top, so this year we thought we might chance hiking up, if we left mid-morning. We got lucky in that it was an overcast day, but the hike still stretched us.

We started down there, and this is half way up!

The castle is as imposing as ever:

I couldn’t help but notice the artillery pieces still held a perfect gunsight on the port:

They added some new features, including a video display of the history of the city, as well as some additional info on the siege of 1708-09. The latter makes a great story. During the war of the Spanish Succession, England & Austria took sides against France & Spain. The English occupied Alicante, until a French force landed and forced them to retreat up to the redoubts of Santa Barbara castle, which were impregnable to bombardment. The French Commander informed his English counterpart that his forces had dug a mine, and were going to ignite it and blow up the keep protecting the castle. The English commander decided it was a ruse, and refused to send a representative (under a flag of truce) to inspect the threatened mine. Instead he began digging down (from the castle) a counter-mine, to intersect the French effort and destroy it. On the designated ultimatum date, the English commander held a soiree at his headquarters, designed to show his complete confidence that the French effort could not succeed.

Note the two dark eyes and nose; the lost section of the castle is to the right

The French set off their explosives, but instead of damaging the exterior wall, it took down a significant chunk of the mountain top, killing most of the English officers and raining down chunks of rock, destroying over 400 homes in the city below. The surviving English garrison surrendered. Best of all, the explosion permanently changed the features of the rocky mountaintop, creating an image in stone called the face of “the Moor” (note: the castle was originally constructed by Moors when they controlled southern Spain).

Finally, I had noted in my research a teeny museum in the city center, the museo de belenes (Nativity Scene Museum). Free to access, but open only a few hours on a few days per week, this city government museum displays the artwork characteristic of Nativity scenes in Europe, and some from around the world. The tradition of Nativity scenes, marking the birth of Jesus, was probably started by St. Francis of Assisi in the 13th Century. It grew as a devotion across the continent and spread worldwide, involving both live recreations and small home displays of figurines. This museum features the latter, along with the characteristic artwork which evolved to cover other religious and secular historical scenes.

Sample larger figurines
The Holy Family looking for the inn, set in the square outside Alicante. The church in the background is the Monastery of the Santa Faz we visited during a recent pilgrimage, and instantly recognizable to all locals.

Looking at the displays, I was reminded of the complaint some raise that Christians “white-wash” the semitic origins of their faith. That is, the characters are often depicted as white, even northern European figures. First off, it’s not true, as some of these figurines display. But the larger point is that everywhere that the evangelists spread the Gospel, they depicted the Lord (or the Virgin, or the Saints) in ways that make them relevant to the local population. When Christianity spread to Europe, that meant making the figures “look” that way, and even set Biblical scenes in modern (for each age) setting, indicating Christ’s story is eternally relevant. When European missionaries went to the New World and Asia, they did the same thing, not to mention how many different ways the Blessed Virgin Mary has appeared in local guise. Sometimes people confuse being culturally relevant with cultural appropriation.

None of these excursions would be “must-see” visits, but they were all easy, informative, and enjoyable. Best of all, we could drop them into our daily routine when we wanted, so we never felt rushed, nor did we think “is this how I want to spend my limited time?” Just another example of the benefits of slow travel.

Caminar & Comer

When we travel, we try to check out local news sources to find out what the locals are up to. Sometimes it’s a dry well, other times we strike gold. This past week was the latter here in Alicante.

Beginning the procession from inside the Co-cathedral

First, Judy saw mention of a local fiesta about the “Santa Faz.” The Holy Face? So I looked it up, and sure enough, there is a monastery of the Holy Face in the greater Alicante area, dating back to the 15th Century. According to local lore, in that period, a monk from Rome smuggled part of the Veil of Veronica to Alicante to spare it from whomever was sacking Rome at that time. The Veil of Veronica? A Catholic legend that a woman named Veronica wiped Jesus’ face (as he walked the cross up to Golgotha), thereby receiving an image of his passion on the veil.

Mel Gibson’s take on the story

There’s no contiguous evidence for Veronica’s story, and some theologians believe even her name is simply a mistranslation referring to the veil (Vera icon = true image in Latin/Greek). But veils purporting to be the true image have been around since the 6th Century, and at one point the Vatican collected up the many versions to try to establish some sort of registry. Unfortunately, before the work was done, the accounting was lost, so no one knows which was which. They subsequently found paths to different places like Alicante, where they continued to be venerated. The Church has approved worship of the Holy Face (as an icon of Christ’s passion) without going any further toward validating any of the individual veils.

Locals in Alicante believe the veil has miraculous qualities, and they honor it annually with a procession from the Co-Cathedral in the city back to the monastery. The images you see in my photos/videos is NOT the veil itself. Too many people tried to touch or grab it over the centuries, and it suffered from public exposure. So the religious authorities constructed a tableau to put it in for further public exposition. The procession happens every year on the second Thursday after Easter. It starts inside the Cathedral, with prayers and a welcome from the alcalde (mayor), as the event is well-coordinated with the local authorities. The pilgrims carry cane poles with sprigs of rosemary signifying their status. It then winds through the narrow streets of the old town until reaching a major modern highway, one-side of which closed. About halfway (5 kilometers) to the monastery, local businesses set up booths offering snacks, wine, and freebies (note the many orange baseball caps, for example).

Arriving at the monastery , there is a full-scale fiesta with booths, carnival rides, etc. We inched our way closer to the main door, and found an outdoor Mass, and the chance to receive Holy Communion. We didn’t stay for the tour inside the monastery, and instead found one of the special public busses set up to take us back to the city center. As we rode home, we could still see families on the early stages of the walk! The government estimates about 330,000 people processed this year!

This adventure was the Caminar (walking) portion of the week; now for the Comer (eating).

Around the same time, the Alicante city government also sponsored “Alacroqueta,” a competition to see which local restaurant serves the best croquettes. Alicante views itself as a national leader in croqueta cuisine. Croqueta began as a solution to leftovers: take whatever didn’t get eaten, form it up into little balls (maybe add a little sauce), dip in batter, fry it up, and serve it again. Over time, they became a go-to form of tapas, the little snacks served alongside drinks in Spanish bars.

As a form of marketing mixed with self-promotion, the city sponsored a public snack-off. Fourteen finalists (after a first round competition earlier in the year) were selected to sell their best croqueta creation at this event. If you bought even one, you got a QR code to vote for best croqueta. The competition went on for four days, and we visited early on Saturday before the lunch rush.

Among the competitors we tried ones filled with kimchi, jamon iberico/mushroom/truffles, and Spanish chorizo. Each croqeuta cost two euros, and drinks were three or four (very inexpensive). We only lasted two rounds of tasting, because while the croquetas are small, they are very rich and fried, thus very filling. A tapas crawl (similar to a bar crawl) here comprises walking from bar to bar, trying their signature tapa with a caña (small beer) or small glass of wine while standing in the bar, then moving on to the next bar. For the locals, the standing and walking and waiting while chatting with friends is part of the experience, while tourists are easy to spot for ordering many different tapas while staying in the same bar.

In both cases (the caminar and the comer) it was fun to join locals enjoying their town.

Just another dia

Marriage (and life in general) is a series of compromises. My dear wife would prefer to be at home, living her routine, every day, for the rest of our days. That works great for us during college football season (September-January), as I too like to be where I don’t have to search to see where games might be televised. I can access the Firestick, pull up YouTube TV, and select four games to watch simultaneously. Three times each Saturday. And some people think there is no God!

But starting in February, I get the travel itch. That’s not quite true. Starting in February I get the travel itch for next year, as by February all this year’s travel is planned, paid for, and ready to go. Judy is game for the annual exodus, but because we’re traveling, I get a chance to compromise. For example, we try to avoid those “If It’s Tuesday, This Must Be Belgium” type trips, endlessly hauling luggage up-n-down European stairwells because the Romans didn’t invent the elevator. We try to stay longer when we go somewhere. We try to avoid jet-lag. and most importantly, we try to live wherever we land within our home, expat schedule.

“What’s the point of traveling if you’re going to live like you’re at home,” you might ask. Why, that’s the point of this blog post!

Living by your typical schedule gives you a sense of normalcy in unfamiliar places. Life on the road, even a planned, extended trip, can quickly become unsettling. A rail strike in Italy, which doesn’t even get covered by the local press anymore, can mean a missed airline flight. A grabby cabbie can lunge at your fistful of dollars in Istanbul, because you don’t have enough Lira (true story). Worst of all, you might get sick. Anyone who has been sick far away from home knows the feeling: what do I do now? Visiting Oxford many years ago for an executive seminar (thanks, US taxpayers!), I got a terrible head cold. I mean snot running out my nose in a torrent. I asked the professor of my seminar where I could get some pseudoephedrine to address the symptoms. She looked at me like I was trying to score some crack. Turns out it was a controlled substance back then in the UK (now too in the US). She said Brits just go to the local apothecary, which I then did. Where, it turns out, they offered me an herbal tea and some smelly thing for a chest rub. Luckily, my wife was arriving from the States, and she smuggled in a box of extra-strength Sudafed.

But setting aside the things that go terribly or mostly wrong, just small things can add up. The coffee is not quite right, or the dining hours off, or the microwave controls appear to be from the Soyuz system. People stay up late partying next door, or don’t form a queue at the bakery, or have a trash and recycling system more complicated than voting in the States. Eventually you can figure these things out, and life sets into a slightly-different routine. But not if you don’t settle in place, first. So we try to keep our home schedule, with nice local excursions to that schedule. What’s that look like here in Alicante, Spain?

I still get up between 6-6:30 am. You can’t get up before the dawn for forty years and not establish a pattern. So that’s my quiet time, to pray, to fix some coffee, to start my daily reading. I wake Judy at 7:30, with a cup of fresh brew and a song. Always the same song. I tried to change it once and never got a verse done before she asked what I was doing. I return to my reading (and another cup) while she has her prayer and quiet time. Around 8-8:30 she makes breakfast. Here’s where small changes come in. We have a minimal kitchen here, and plentiful Spanish foods, so we generally have eggs with jamon iberico (in its many forms), toast with olive oil and salmorejo ( a cold garlicky soup the locals also pour onto the breakfast bread). Judy has the same with what I call her “nuts and twigs”: cottage cheese or yogurt with chia seeds and powdered bat-wing, eye of newt, and grass from the plaza next door. I may be wrong about the last few ingredients. Maybe. I don’t want to ask.

My breakfast, this time with black beans, too

Between 9-9:30, at home we would head to the gym we built in our basement. Here, we joined a local gym for the two months of our stay, €30 per person per month, no sign-up fee and no long-term commitment. We go six days a week, with a schedule that includes daily stretching and cardio, and weights with rest days in between. I have to say that we see the same set of twenty-something gym-bros and -bras there everyday, so I have no idea what they all do for a living. We’ll be at the gym until 11:30-noon, then back to the apartment.

Barely got a pic I was eating so fast

Lunch presents the first real choice of the day: do we eat out or will Judy cook it? Remember, we only eat breakfast and lunch, so cooking our big meal of the day is no small commitment. Judy usually plans a day or two out in advance, so sometimes there is a chicken breast or pork filet that needs eating, other times not. Fresh Broccoli, or seasonal vegetables: right now it’s asparagus and artichoke season, so they’re fresh, inexpensive, and in every tienda. I’ll have a few restaurant options to choose from if that’s what we lean toward this day. Not all of them will be tapas, croquetas, or even Spanish cuisine; we just hit a pizzeria because it advertised real Napolitano pizza, and sure enough, the chef was from Naples. There are sushi, Thai, Poke, Argentine, Chinese, and Arab restaurants within blocks.

After lunch, we usually go do our grocery shopping. When in Europe, shop like the Europeans: go to the store every day and get fresh bread, veggies, milk, etc. Carry them home in a little trolley. Yes, they do have giant all-in-one stores like Costco, but most people shop in the store down the street. The crazy thing is, everything in there will be fresh. When you walk into a 7-11, you expect processed and frozen food; you don’t eat the prepared stuff unless you have a death-wish. Here, even the prepared foods were made this morning, and usually by someone who really took pride in making that little ensalada rusa. And they’re good, and not expensive.

Because it’s close to the apartment and we shop for a only a few things, it’s a quick trip. We often take a short walk around town after meals. Between 1:00 and 2:00 we face a second choice: is there some place or event we want to visit? Via walking or the tram, we can get anywhere in town in under ten minutes, so we can pop over to a museum, a store, a display and be back before siesta time. Or we can always go another day, and siesta time beckons sooner. Siesta is real thing, but it doesn’t always involve sleeping in the middle of the day. Well, it does for us, but in general in Mediterranean cultures, it’s the hottest part of the afternoon, when it is best not to go out, or if you must, to run a few errands before returning to work. In Mexico the school day is a half day, so parents go home to greet their children coming home or to send the second shift off to school. Here in Spain, many more stores stay open as a convenience, but some banks and government offices close. In the Spring it seems a luxury, but in Summer, it’s a necessity.

Judy can easily put in two hours of siesta, falling asleep to her True Crime podcasts. How anybody can fall asleep to the creepy voice of the narrator saying, “he looked normal, but that machete he was sharpening had a well-worn blade” I will never understand. I take my patented Pentagon nap. Back in the day, when I was still in uniform and worked on the Joint Staff in an extremely stressful job supporting the nuclear arms talks, we all used to work insane hours. My bosses didn’t care how long we spent at the POAC: the Pentagon Officers (and civilians) Athletic Club. On really bad days, I would head down there, switch into my swim trunks, shower next to the pool, then sit down in one of the pool-side lounge chairs (yes, they really had these, although the pool was underground!) and close my eyes. Forty-five minutes later (without a smartwatch, timer, or alarm clock), I would sit up, shower and get back in uniform, and “resume the suckage” as we used to say. Thus is my siesta today.

I’ll wake Judy between 4:30 and 5:00 pm so we can indulge a guilty pleasure: watching the ABC evening news and The Five on Fox. Depending on what time zone we’re in, these shows may be live, taped, or even from the previous day (most often the case in Europe). It’s strictly to see what the legacy media is saying, and if you haven’t ever watched The Five, I recommend it to you. The panelists (mostly regulars) genuinely like each other, so the banter is spontaneous and authentic. They really do mix it up, and there are genuine representatives of different viewpoints: MAGA, trad GOP, libertarian, liberal/progressive, and comic. But there’s clearly a right-leaning take.

In the early evening, we may go for another walk. I’ll do some writing, either for this blog or for a book. We both review social media, but try to limit it by setting a time to “watch our shows” normally at 8:00 pm. At that time, we pull up some new or interesting series on Britbox, Acorn, Netflix, Amazon Prime, or other streaming services, watching however many episodes fit in before 10:00 pm and bed.

Go to sleep, rinse and repeat.

The one major difference is Sunday, where we skip the gym and instead go to church. Oh, and Monday, when we cut into siesta by getting a massage at the Thai parlor down the street.

Last week, I reported on the afternoon and late evening processions we attended, which throw this schedule off, but are of course part of the reason for travelling in the first place. This week, there’s another pilgrimage and a croquetas competition, so those will find a place on the schedule. The nice thing is we don’t have to feel rushed. It started to sprinkle today as we left church, and we hesitated: do we skip the archaeology museum for another day? We chanced it, and the threatened rain didn’t materialize. And we got that amazing pizza afterward.

We were never going to be comfortable adopting the Spanish eating schedule. As I write this, I’m watching the families out in the plaza across from our balcony apartment, and they’re sitting in the square, talking and playing games, working up an appetite for dinner, because it’s only 8:00 pm and it’s still quite light outside. They’ll be out until 10:00 pm, kids included. Works for them; would make both of us sick. But other aspects are easier to adopt. Doing small loads of laundry (we’re lucky our apartment has both a small washer and dryer), shopping daily, walking everywhere.

So any given day may seem a lot like home, with some more Spanish flavor (as in the meals) or be as different as attending a pilgrimage walk of several miles with several hundred thousand of our closest co-religionists (coming soon to a blog near you). Not overwhelming, but also different from staying at an all-inclusive or doing group tours. We probably wouldn’t be able to pull this off without our functional Spanish-language capabilities, although a tourist city like Alicante has plenty of English speakers and businesses with little Union Jack flags in the windows (English-friendly). But signing up for a gym, or shopping for clothes, or asking the museum ticket office for a special combination ticket? All that’s en español.

So that’s our approach to slow travel, and it works for us. If you have your own way to approach travel, share it in the comments!

Triduum

Not a typo, but a Latin term used by the Catholic Church for the three days coming after the Lenten penitential season. Some old Catholics and other Christians may recall references to the “forty days of Lent” but that is a historical reference, not an actual count. Pope Leo I originally set the Lenten period at forty days, but later Popes set Ash Wednesday (you know, the day you see people walking around with smudges on their foreheads?) as the beginning of Lent , which reset Lent to more than forty days. Some folks contend the Sundays in Lent don’t count (Sundays are always “feast days”) but that would leave Lent at less than forty days. Either way, Lent ends with Holy Thursday, the start of a three-day period called Triduum. And yes, it’s still confusing, because the three days comprise Thursday-to-Friday, Friday-to-Saturday, and Saturday-to-Sunday. Which is Easter.

While many people think of Christmas and Easter as equally important peak days of Christianity, that’s not entirely correct. The Triduum, the mysterious period where Jesus Christ holds the Last Supper, is betrayed, accused, chastised*, tried, condemned, crucified, and then rises from the dead, is the summit of Christian experience. Of course, you can’t get there without the Incarnation (Mary’s fiat in Nazareth, Jesus’ birth at Bethlehem), but we can’t get there (Heaven) without the Triduum.

The Alicante processions continued all week, and while we didn’t attend each and every one, the ones we did attend were all unique. On Wednesday we tried to get close to the Hermanidad Penitencial procession in the Santa Cruz neighborhood. I say tried, because despite going early, we only got this close:

The Santa Cruz area is the original old city, on a hillside, with very narrow lanes. Maneuvering the paso through involves all kinds of complicated maneuvers. Going under a doorway might have the costaleros crawling on their hands and knees; going downhill means holding the front over their heads, hands extended (to equalize the weight; think about carrying a couch down a stairwell). A French couple with whom we were watching another procession told us the costaleros return the paso to the top of the hill by running with it! Luckily, someone else got a better video of the event:

This video captures the scenes in Santa Cruz quite well

On Holy Thursday we stayed up till 11:30 pm to watch the beginning of the “silent procession.” Two surprises awaited us. First, the procession turned right coming out of the door of the Co-cathedral, while the official tourist guide assured me they would turn left. So we were out of position. Second, the band started up; maybe the silent part comes later?

Lest we find ourselves distant onlookers yet again, the Spirit took pity on us when we returned to our apartment. One more procession, not just in the neighborhood, but right under our balcony!

and then . . .

We eventually recovered from our late night, and now happily and solemnly await Easter morning. I know I’m looking forward to chocolate (from the Leonidas store two blocks away) and ice cream (gelato!); Judy will resume listening to true-crime podcasts. We hope your Lent was spiritually fruitful!

Blessed Easter to All!

The paso which passed beneath our balcony

*Chastisement was a spectrum of Roman punishment, from mild public scolding to heavy flogging designed solely for those about to be executed by crucifixion. Odd how in English, it has become solely the former.

Holy Week in Spain (Palm Sunday)

Children processing with palm branches kick-off the proceedings

Choosing to spend some quality expat spring time in Spain meant the opportunity to witness how the Spanish do Holy Week: Holy Cow! When we moved to rural Mexico, we were impressed by the Passion plays, posadas, and festivities surrounding Catholic feasts (especially Christmas, Easter, and each pueblo’s patron saint). But like so many other things (vaqueros/cow-boys, talavera pottery, skeletons/catrinas, use of doubled surnames), Mexican culture has significant antecedents from Spanish culture. Now you might think that Spain, being an advanced European nation with a sophisticated, post-Enlightenment mentality, might have outgrown much religious “superstition.” And you would be wrong.

Woke up from our siesta to music outside the balcony . . . another procession starting from the church down the street

In addition to all the religious services normally associated with the end of Lent and the celebration of Easter, one of Spain’s most treasured traditions is the procession. These processions are elaborate affairs, supported by local organizations (often called cofradias or hermanidades) and some trace all the way back to the sixteenth century. These groups resemble the “krewes” who perform a similar function for Mardi Gras in New Orleans, but there are no beads and no flashing in these processions. Instead, the groups arrange elaborate floats (pasos) which are hand-carried through the streets, accompanied by a drumbeat, sacred tune, and members of the groups in official costumes. The pasos can weigh between 4,000-12,000 pounds, including elaborate sculptures, statues, and floral arrangements. Thus the costaleros carrying the floats can number in the hundreds, and it is an honor to be chosen to carry. The massive floats maneuver down narrow city streets, usually passing by several major plazas and the town hall and either ending or beginning at a basilica or cathedral.

This video includes a pit-stop crew change . . . wait for it!

We considered visiting Sevilla for this special week, as the processions there are often featured in videos and draw large crowds, so I assumed they were unique and special. But I decided to double-check what was on the agenda for Alicante: twenty-six distinct processions, starting on Palm Sunday and ending Easter morning. No need to take a train to see one, they were coming (figuratively, I thought) down my street!

We noticed no one was out in front of our restaurant after lunch, so we went outside to find out why . . .

All this was only Palm Sunday. Now it was also the first week of Daylight Saving Time, so the already night-owlish Spaniards were quite happy to be out and about with the 60 degree temps and an extra hour of evening sun (it got dark around 9:30 pm).

As we prepared for bed, that earlier procession came back past our block!

Before anybody asks: no, the klan is not well-represented here. The pointed white hats and hoods are a holdover from the infamous Spanish Inquisition. One of the punishments meted out to the sinful-but-repentant was to parade through town wearing this “dunce cap” carrying a sign or symbol of one’s serious sins. Thus the penitent was forced to face public ridicule, but was anonymous, sparing them the greatest disgrace. Or they marched without the face covering, but with nothing identifying exactly what sin they committed. Today, we embrace our shame and post about it on Insta; haven’t we come so far! The caps are called capirotes, and the various groups who sponsor the processions adopted them as uniforms showing their own contrition.

For those without the time/patience/bandwidth to watch the videos: this image captures the sights, if not the sounds and smells

And all this was only the beginning.

Pat the (Spanish) Expat?

Longtime readers will recall Judy & I started absconding to Europe in the springtime a few years back. First, because it’s less crowded than summertime and the weather is still nice. Second, Ajijic is at the end of its dry season, when it warms up and gets a little dusty. Third, according to Judy, I can’t just sit still and enjoy our wonderful home when there are still battlefields, historic ruins, and cathedrals we haven’t seen. Anyway, shoulder season is getting more crowded all the time, we now have air conditioning and total off-grid solar power at home, but there are still battlefields, historic ruins, and cathedrals we haven’t seen! She’s probably correct.

We just arrived after a seventeen-day transatlantic cruise, and we’ve settled into a rental apartment in Alicante, Spain for the next two months. I’ve previously extolled the virtues of cruising to Europe (here), so I’ll summarize it thusly: if you have the time, if you know what type of cruise line you prefer (they are VERY different), if you hate jet-lag, if you don’t get seasick or aren’t afraid of the open ocean, cruising to Europe is a comfortable bargain. End of commercial.

Why Alicante? We visited here for a week last year, after doing a lot of due diligence about perhaps buying a vacation home in Spain. Our two finalist locations were Sevilla and Alicante. Either would be a great place for an extended visit, but Sevilla well-earns its nickname as the “oven of Europe” for summer temperatures. Alicante, on the Costa Blanca (south of Valencia, north of Cartagena) has more moderate weather, which made it our winner.

But our vacation home-buying plans are in abeyance right now, due to the politics of the Spanish government. Spain has an affordable housing crisis, as there are too many people chasing two few houses in the cities where everyone wants to live. Vast rural areas and small towns in Spain are depopulating at an alarming rate, but zoning and other regulations impede new construction in more desirable locations. Demonstrating that other countries can be as mismanaged as our own, the Spanish Prime Minister has unilaterally given amnesty to 500,000 illegal immigrants, and pledged to be more welcoming to immigration in the future . . . while not increasing the housing supply. The government’s straw-man arguments are to blame the lack of housing on (wait for it) foreigners buying vacation homes in Spain (us in the future conditional tense), and overtourism (us in the present tense) creating demand which results in converting long-term rentals (for locals) to short-term rentals (for tourists).

Actually, both of these arguments hold some water, but they omit important details. Home buying by foreigners is a very tiny part of the market, and represents a net gain economically by introducing well-off clientele to the local economy. And who owns all those apartments being converted for tourists? Spaniards, making money off the rentals. “My, you’re the dark one,” said the pot to the kettle!

Santa Barbara, atop the hill

While the government has done nothing but complain about the situation, they have threatened measures like a 100% purchase-price tax on foreign home-buyers, which is the kind of thing to cool one’s ardor to buy a home in Spain right now. At least it cooled ours. Just to buy, not to visit. In fact, we viewed the cooling off period as an opportunity to try out the lifestyle we were considering, just short of going all in with a purchase. So here we are in Alicante.

Looking north across the beaches to the resorts at Benidorm; Sunday, noon, around 60 F

Alicante is big enough (pop: 370,000) to have everything one wants in a city, but retains the smaller town feel. The casca antiguo (old city) clings to the hillside beneath the obligatory mountain-top fortress of Castell de Santa Bàrbara. The areas closest to the beach have been gentrified into shopping/eating/touristing, but the quaint lanes of old casas still line the Santa Cruz neighborhood. There is a fine marina, with a stunning, large esplanade of mosaic tiles and tapas bars. While some tourists stay in Alicante, most descend upon the nearby purpose-built beach suburb of Benidorm, where high-rises stretch from the beach to the hills. The downtown is flat and very walkable, while the city and local beach communities are connected by an inexpensive tram.

A small portion of the famous esplanade

We have a small (600 sq. ft.) apartment in the centro. While it does have two bedrooms, a kitchen and a combo living/dining room, it is designed primarily as a short-term rental. Because we were looking for a longer-term and seeking outside the high season, we were able to cut a deal with the property manager. When I say deal, don’t think “steal”: it was still expensive, but worth it to try out the lifestyle short of the cost of buying a place!

So for the next two months, we’ll be reporting on our attempt to merge our own well-settled expat lifestyle with that of Spain.

¡Palante, como los de Alicante!” (Forward like the people of Alicante!), a common Spanish aphorism.

Various Australian ficus and pine species seem to thrive here

Lent* at Sea

There is absolutely nothing penitential about being on a cruise ship. In fact, few things are more in the spirit of Carneval (literally “carne val” or away with meat, denoting the feasting one does before the meat goes away) than ocean cruising. “Would you like three appetizers, sir?” “A second lobster thermidor? Of course!” One must find one’s penance in forgoing all the offerings, at best. But one positive aspect of such a Lenten journey is the opportunity to pray at sea.

Amen!

Now I’m a land-lubber, and the most land-locked of those. I was born far away from any useful water source. Lake Michigan’s beaches were full of dead alewifes when I grew up, and worse yet, my mother had an inexplicably morbid fear of water, so much so none of her children were encouraged to go near it. I didn’t learn to swim until I got to West Point, where they pointed me to the pool, handed me a old rifle with the barrel full of cement, and told me to get to the other side without drowning. Actually, that was the final test, but the twenty or so African American cadets and I in what they called “rock-squad” swimming class felt like it was the beginning.

Anyway, I now feel very secure that I am drown-proofed, but I retain an abiding respect for the sea. Amidst a transatlantic crossing, one spends days away from the sight of land, so early morning is a perfect time to go out on a balcony, take in the majesty of the Good Lord’s creation, and render him homage. Nothing makes you feel smaller, and the world bigger and full of wonder, than staring out above the abyss.

If it makes me feel insignificant, that’s a good thing. In the larger scheme, we all are. That may be the point. There is a larger scheme, and we all have very small and insignificant parts. Bishop Robert Barron is fond of describing it as the contest between the theo-drama, the story the Lord is actively writing, and the ego-drama, the one each of us seeks to star-in all by ourselves. I like to call it the meo-drama, just to make the point sharper. The way of the Lord leads to peace of mind; the way of the ego leads to constant aggravation. The world doesn’t go our way. We’re never as rich, as thin, or as popular as we want. The government doesn’t accept our policies, the courts don’t abide by our rulings, our neighbors don’t live by our rules.

Reinhold Niebuhr, the American theologian, is credited with the Serenity prayer: “Lord, give me the serenity to accept those things I cannot change, the passion to change those I can, and the wisdom to discern the difference.” There is great wisdom in this simple statement. Notice that serenity (and humility) is the foremost request, because life will be an unending series of things we cannot change. Only then comes the request for passion, because without the Lord’s guidance, our passions are mostly (if not entirely) ill-used. Finally, the prayer ends with the call for wisdom, which will temper both the heat of our passion and coolness of our restraint.

I write all this because I often get asked–either in wonder or incredulity–“Pat, how can you remain so calm amidst everything going on? Are you unconcerned about (fill-in your favorite controversy, there are so many)? Don’t you see the severity of our situation? How can you be unmoved?”

First off, I’m often moved, moved to prayer. For those who see prayer as meaningless, I’m sorry, but in my world, it changes everything, starting with me. Second, as a student of history (I’m not sure one is ever a master of history), I know how much worse things have been before, even in my limited span of years. Name a challenge, and I’ll name its historical topper.

I call to mind Jesus admonition in the Olivet Discourse (Matthew 24:6-13)

“You will hear of wars and reports of wars; see that you are not alarmed, for these things must happen, but it will not yet be the end.

Nation will rise against nation, and kingdom against kingdom; there will be famines and earthquakes from place to place.
All these are the beginning of the labor pains.

Then they will hand you over to persecution, and they will kill you. You will be hated by all nations because of my name.

And then many will be led into sin; they will betray and hate one another.

Many false prophets will arise and deceive many; and because of the increase of evildoing, the love of many will grow cold.

But the one who perseveres to the end will be saved.

And this gospel of the kingdom will be preached throughout the world as a witness to all nations, and then the end will come.”

No, I’m not suggesting we’re in the end times, except for the fact we’re always in the end times, in general, and you and I are very much in our very own end times. One of the key traits of the Devil (and yes, I do believe Satan is real) is his tendency to scatter, just as Christ seeks to bring all things together. Nothing is more emblematic of this today than the constant harangue from our algorithms telling us how stupid, how biased, and how evil others are. And of course it has its effect, dehumanizing us just as it dehumanizes those with whom we disagree.

People decry horrid language by our politicians by using equally objectionable language. Some take to the streets, protesting or interfering with federal agents who have guns; others decry any restraint concerning how American citizens are treated at home. How one feels about the killing of one of the worst, mass-murdering terrorist leaders of the last fifty years is determined by your politics. A senior politician predicts the defeat of US military forces as they are out there, fighting. Of course there are policies and politics to be validly debated here, but this is all scattering, not discourse.

This Lent, I’m participating with the Hallow app in reading the Brothers Karamazov and reflecting on it. It has been a moving experience thus far, and we’re only two weeks in! One of the lessons Dostoevsky presents is “everyone is really responsible to all men, for all men, and everything.” What seems logically impossible is actually a call to recognize we are all constantly contributing to the holiness or sin of all those around us. Constantly, and with everyone. Our good and evil acts, no matter how minor, ripple out across the community and the world. Refuse a beggar, cut-off a driver, post a false meme, share another’s secrets, and you may have no idea what evil you may have wrought. And that ignorance is not an excuse.

This is not a call for passivity, because the alms you give, the person to whom you yield, the truth you insist upon, and the confidence you keep also ripple out. Rather than judging, we are called to acknowledge our own sinfulness, then to proceed from humility, realizing we are no better than anyone else: we’re just as responsible in all cases. Like another biblical saying about removing the beam from one’s own eye before trying to remove the splinter in your brother’s, once we are seeing aright in our own life, we can clearly see how to respond to others (even in politics!).

The really amazing part? Once one truly embraces this approach, one is freed from the need to judge others, and instead can act solely for their good. Which brings joy and peace of mind.

So this Lent, if the way you’re living seems to be a collection of scattering, if you’re always angry, consider the alternative.

“Behold, now is a very acceptable time; behold, now is the day of salvation.

* After I wrote this, I realized that while many of my friends know all about Lent, others may not. Lent is a penitential season (for many Christians, especially Catholics) leading up to Easter. During this period, we are asked to deny ourselves some things we like, fast and abstain from certain foods, give alms to the poor and generally recommit ourselves to the Way.